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Shattering the Illusion: A Narcissist's Ultimate Fear Exposed

Shattering the Illusion: A Narcissist's Ultimate Fear Exposed

Shattering the Illusion: A Narcissist's Ultimate Fear Exposed

During my relationship with a narcissistic person, despite everything I went through with him, I found myself searching for any excuse or reason to justify his abnormal behavior. I tried to find any argument that would justify his actions, even when they hurt me. I thought that maybe his childhood was the reason behind this behavior, or that he suffered from a psychological disorder that needed treatment, or that I was trying to help and console him in the hope that he would change and become a normal and mentally healthy person. However, over time, I discovered that his behavior was intentional and deliberate, and that he was deliberately hurting me and seeking to destroy our relationship. Regardless of everything I did for him and extended to him, he hated me and loved to manipulate and hurt me, and he sought to destroy my good qualities that attracted him to me in the first place. 

The narcissist behaves in a strange and unexpected way and deals with you in an unpredictable manner, which makes you lose trust in him and feel unsafe in the relationship. The narcissist constantly seeks to change your qualities and turn them into flaws, so that he can hurt you and destroy your relationship with him. And despite everything you do for him, the narcissist continues to manipulate you and seeks to hurt you, which always makes you on guard and expect the worst from him. 

You cannot predict my feelings towards you, as the narcissist may love me today and hate me tomorrow without any clear reason. I am the narcissist, and I will promise you things in the future and promise you improvement and change, so that my demands are met from you. If you are patient with me and endure me, I will be better and more mentally healthy. But no matter what you do for me, you make me hate you, and I love to manipulate and hurt you. I always seek to turn your beautiful qualities into flaws so that I can hurt you and destroy our relationship. 

However, over time, you will realize my nature and know my tricks and lies, and it will be harder for me to manipulate you. And one day, I will suddenly disappear from your life and completely cut off contact with you, but I will return after a certain period to persuade you to return to the relationship again, and I will use lies and arguments to convince you of that. But you will not believe me, as you know my reality now, and if you refuse to return to me, I will take revenge on you. I will make your life a living hell and punish you in every way allowed by the law, and I will try to use any argument to hurt you and destroy your life in various ways. 

But what happens if you are the one who disappears from my life? That would be a nightmare for me, as I will not be able to reach you or control you. I will try to find any way to reach you and make sure of your condition, but I will fail in that, and my life will remain complicated and disturbed due to losing control over you. 

If you don't react to the narcissist in any way, he won't be able to affect or speak to you. This will make him completely powerless to reach you. So, if you want to destroy the narcissist, this is the worst thing he can imagine. 

Make sure to stay away from the narcissist, and this is the best thing you can do right now, or in any relationship with a narcissist. Because you may suddenly and unexpectedly change in front of the narcissist, and he is still trying to drain you and feed on you, but he will not be able to reach you. Therefore, he will not be able to punish you or seek revenge from you. Avoid giving the narcissist any chance to reach or affect you. This is better than confronting him, even if you think confronting the narcissist is in your best interest. Therefore, the only thing you can do is to leave the relationship immediately without the narcissist knowing. 

The narcissist could really destroy your life as long as you were in this relationship, but your disappearance from the relationship in this way is the best protection for you from his anger, revenge, and the destruction he was trying to cause from the beginning. 

You cannot do this openly, as it would not be appropriate when you want to distance yourself from the narcissist or exit the relationship. It must happen secretly and without any expectations from the narcissist. 

It is impossible for the narcissist to allow you to do this, and if he knows before you leave the relationship that you intend to leave him, his revenge on you will be terrible. This is the worst nightmare for the narcissist, because he will not be able to imagine anything worse than his inability to influence you. 

I hope you have benefited from this episode, and we hope to meet in the next episode with a new topic about narcissism. Thank you, and peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings.


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